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Sacred Wood of Bomarzo: Monsters, Myth, and Mystery in Lazio

by Debi Lander

Some places ask to be understood.
Bomarzo Park refuses.

Hidden in the forested hills of northern Lazio, the Parco dei Mostri or Monster Park, is not a garden in the traditional sense. It is a fantasy carved from stone. A labyrinth of towering monsters, reclining gods, mythic beasts, and unsettling faces created in the 16th century not to please, but to provoke.

A winged dragon battles a snarling beast, setting the tone for a garden where myth and imagination rule.
©Debi Lander

A Garden Born from Grief and Imagination

Bomarzo Park was not created by a king or a pope, but by a grieving nobleman.

In 1552, Prince Pier Francesco “Vicino” Orsini, lord of Bomarzo, began commissioning this strange woodland after the death of his beloved wife, Giulia Farnese. Rather than building a formal Renaissance garden of symmetry and order, Orsini imagined something radically different. He envisioned a place of disorientation, emotion, and philosophical reflection.

He hired the famed Mannerist architect Pirro Ligorio to bring his vision to life. Instead of reshaping nature into geometric perfection, they carved the sculptures directly from existing volcanic rock outcroppings, allowing the forest itself to dictate form.

Orsini called it il Sacro Bosco, the Sacred Wood.

It was meant to be felt more than understood. For me, it was a place where imagination quietly returned. Time slowed. Edges softened. The practical world faded, replaced by a sense of childlike wonder I hadn’t realized I missed.

The Lady of the Sacred Wood. ©Debi Lander

A Journey Into the Unexpected

Reaching Bomarzo requires intention. Hidden in the countryside near Viterbo, it is not a place you find by chance. My taxi drove through peaceful villages and wooded hills, the road curving gently until the forest finally opened before us.

A modest visitor center greeted me. Then, I walked out the back door, and the stone giants began.

Proteo Glauco: Guardian of the Wood


One of the first figures visitors encounter is the formidable Proteo Glauco, a massive stone head emerging from the earth, crowned by a sculpted sphere. His expression is both watchful and ambiguous. Moss gathers in the creases of his face. Leaves settle in the folds of his carved hair.

He feels ancient, as if he has always belonged to the forest.

Proteo Glaucoma, a mythological sea serpent, lies near the entrance. ©Debi Lander


Tartaruga: The Moss-Crowned Turtle

Deeper into the woodland sits the great Tartaruga. A giant turtle supports a figure balanced above, an allegory open to interpretation. Slow and steady. Power? Patience?

The entire sculpture is softened by greenery, as if nature itself is reclaiming the fantasy.

I descended a staircase and came to this giant turtle covered in moss. ©Debi Lander

The Etruscan Elephant

The Panca Etrusca, often called the Etruscan Elephant, is one of Bomarzo’s most iconic sculptures. The enormous stone elephant carries a small tower on its back while grasping a fallen soldier in its trunk. This elephant is a blend of fantasy with classical symbolism. It feels both whimsical and imposing.

Even in stone, it suggests motion, as though the beast might step forward at any moment.

The enormous stone elephant named Panca Etrusca in Bormazo Park. ©Debi Lander

Ercole and Caco

I gasped when I stumbled upon the dramatic scene depicting Ercole defeating Caco, better known as Hercules and the thief. Here, a raw, muscular moment of violence is frozen in stone. The monumental scale reminds you that these sculptures were meant to overwhelm.

This powerful statue takes your breath away when you first see it. It’s huge and intimidating. ©Debi Lander

Neptune in the Sacred Wood

Up and around a bend, I found Neptune, known in Italian as Nettuno or the god of the sea, nestled behind the overhanging tree limbs.

He reconnects the garden to classical antiquity. Moss softens his features, yet his authority remains. He rests with quiet strength, weathered but dignified. Compared to the monsters, he feels almost serene.

I found myself lingering here. The balance between myth and nature felt seamless, as though Neptune had always belonged to the forest rather than the sea.

Neptune, god of the sea, at Bormazo Park.
A wide-angle shot of Neptune under autumn gold leaves. ©Debi Lander
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Casa Pendente: The Leaning House

The crooked house tilts deliberately, disorienting visitors before you even step inside. It plays with gravity and expectation, reminding you that this is not a place of rational thought.

It is a garden of sensation, and it’s fun.

Entering the crooked house is fun but disorienting. Children love it.

The Herms and Silent Faces

A line of carved herms rises from the earth in silent procession, their expressions solemn and unblinking. Beyond them, reclining figures and nymph-like forms lounge amid urns and lichen-covered stone, letting time gently settle over them.

Here, the Sacred Wood moves from menace to meditation in a single turn of the path.

A line of faces near the Leaning House.

Orcus: Where Every Thought Flies

The path bends, the light dims beneath the thick canopy, and then it appears — not gradually, but all at once. A colossal stone face emerges from the earth, its mouth stretched wide in a silent, eternal cry.

This is Orcus – the most famous sculpture of all within the park.

His gaping jaws form a doorway, an invitation and a warning at once. Carved above the lip are the words Ogni pensiero vola — “Every thought flies.” It is less a caption than a challenge.

Standing before him, I hesitated. The darkness inside felt cool and cavernous, a space meant not simply to be viewed but experienced. It was playful and unsettling at the same time. You enter the monster, and somehow emerge lighter, proof that even darkness can be transformative.

Me standing in the mouth of Orcus.

Echidna: Mother of Monsters

One of the final and more surprising figures is Echidna, the mythological Mother of Monsters. Part woman, part serpent, she is said to have birthed many of the most fearsome creatures of Greek legend.

Learning her name changed the way I saw the forest. The sculptures no longer felt isolated or eccentric; they felt connected, part of an ancient mythic lineage. I even thought of Game of Thrones, where dragons and hybrid beings dominate modern storytelling. These archetypes endure. The Sacred Wood is not random fantasy. It draws deeply from classical mythology.

The Mother of Monsters, her name makes me think Game of Thrones, ©Debi Lander
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The Orsini Bear

The Orsini family crest appears in the form of a powerful stone bear holding a shield. It brings personal history to the Sacred Wood, a statement of identity and legacy.

A Glimpse Into the Past

Returning to the visitor center, I noticed one of the displays held a vintage black and white photograph of shepherds guiding sheep through the Sacred Wood. You see livestock grazing before the Orcus mouth and the elephant. This photo showed me that Bomarzo was once even more rustic and untamed.

The monsters were not always surrounded by ticket booths and cameras. They stood quietly in a wilder landscape.

A vintage photo of Bormarzo when it wasn’t a tourist attraction.

Why Bomarzo Matters

Bomarzo is not polished. It is not symmetrical. It does not flatter the eye in the way formal gardens might.

It unsettles yet delights. It invites curiosity. It allows imagination to roam.

In a world that often demands clarity and order, the Sacred Wood offers something rarer.

Mystery.

And like all great journeys, Bomarzo stays with you long after you leave. 

A closer look at Neptune.

Location: Bomarzo, Lazio, Italy
Closest major cities: Rome and Viterbo
Time needed: Allow at least two hours to wander slowly and let the forest reveal itself.
Best season: Spring or autumn for softer light and fewer crowds.
Family Friendly: Older children usually love it, unless they are easily frightened by oversized monsters and shadowy stone faces.

I hired a taxi driver in Viterbo who agreed to take me and return two hours later, making the visit simple and stress-free.

Orcus was my favorite ©Debi Lander.
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Priceless Family Memories in Georgia’s Golden Isles

Imagine my surprise when I was informed that I’d won a St. Simons Getaway Contest: a package including four nights in a two-bedroom cottage on St. Simons Island compliments of the Golden Isles Convention and Visitor’s Bureau and Island Cottage Company, plus gift certificates from restaurants and activities. WOW!

The Golden Isles of Georgia
The Golden Isles of Georgia

Since I travel for my work, I don’t usually take a vacation. So, what would I do with this wonderful windfall?

I have four grown children and eight grandchildren, but needless to say, a group that size wouldn’t fit. In talking with them, my son Steve and his extended family decided to rent a house on St. Simons, concurrent with my cottage reservation. My youngest and single daughter, Laura, would share the cottage with me. So, plans were made for a multi-generational family vacation.

St. Simons Island

Stunning Avenue of Oaks, St. Simons Island, Georgia
Stunning Avenue of Oaks, St. Simons Island, Georgia

We all arrived in early June, some driving and some flying. St. Simons is the largest barrier island in the Golden Isles group, situated off the southern Georgia coast. The name comes from the warm reflection of the sun on lowland Spartina or marsh grass.

To get there, I drove about two hours before crossing the 480-foot tall Sidney Lanier Bridge and through the Lowcountry. Once on St. Simons, you pick up a peaceful, family-friendly vibe.

Much of the island is residential, the streets lined with stately old oaks dripping Spanish moss. One of the most beautiful spots, called the Avenue of Oaks, features a double row of huge trees planted in 1826. The island includes a few villages, a small airport, and lovely beaches.

Laura and I checked into the Piper Cottage, a small house full of big delights. We each had a bedroom, plus a living room, dining area, another den or lounge, two bathrooms, a full kitchen and outdoor patio. In addition, a small screened-in front porch and a fenced in yard.  What more could we want?

Piper Cottage
Piper Cottage
St. Simons Cottage
St. Simons Cottage

Michele Beveridge, the owner, came over and welcomed us. The Piper Cottage decor blends hues of blue and white in a casual, beachy style that’s totally laid-back and charming. Another bonus was high-speed WiFi. Yes — even when you’re on vacation.

The chosen week turned out to be one of the hottest weeks of the summer. Whew! The family over in Steve’s house awaken with the sun, so various adults would get out early and set up a tent for shade and the beach chairs. Sunscreen, sand toys, Boogie boards, snacks and cold water were trekked down along with the kids. Everyone splashed in the ocean, jumped the waves and built sand castles.

When the beach got too hot, we headed to the pool, an extra that came along with Steve’s big house rental. Soon, lunchtime called and the youngest needed naps.

Southern Soul BBQ
Southern Soul BBQ

Laura and I decided to use one of the gift certificates and headed off to Southern Soul BBQ for pulled pork sandwiches. This super casual restaurant, in an old gas station, has lip-smacking, tender and juicy BBQ. The meat is slow-cooked, and you choose a choice of sauces. Yummy!

Another afternoon, my son and I took the two oldest girls to the Lighthouse (four tickets were included in my package.) It stands near the village and the pier and is one of only five light towers in Georgia. The 104-foot brick structure dates back to 1872 but was overhauled in 1876. In 1953, it became fully automated.

St. Simons Lighthouse
St. Simons Lighthouse

We began by watching a terrific orientation video. Then, despite the heat, we climbed the cast iron spiral stairway with 129 steps to the top. The view of St. Simons Sound from up high is sublime.

The 1872 keeper’s dwelling is of Victorian design and restored to the period. Compared to others lighthouses I have visited, this house seemed quite grand and spacious. The girls and I enjoyed peeking into the children’s bedroom and guessing at the antique kitchen tools. The gift shop is one of the best with truly lovely items!!

Lighthouse Kitchen
Lighthouse Kitchen

Another afternoon, we visited the Maritime Center housed in the old Coast Guard Station (Tickets to the lighthouse also admit you to the Maritime Center). The station was used up until 1995 and later turned into a museum that includes some hands-on history activities and nature exhibits for children.

Jekyll Island

Jekyll Island, another of the Golden Isles, is a sleepy, secluded place of unspoiled beauty. You pay a $6 entry fee to cross the causeway. It supports the island’s natural and cultural resources.

Jekyll Island Club-
Jekyll Island Club-

Jekyll became the winter escape grounds for America’s richest during the Gilded Age. Legendary families like the Rockefellers, Morgans, and Pulitzers reveled in their luxurious “cottages.” Their homes around the Jekyll Island Club became known as the Millionaires’ Row.

One morning my family group skipped the beach and carpooled to nearby Jekyll to visit the Georgia Sea Turtle Center. This extraordinary facility functions like a top-of-the-line hospital except the patients aren’t humans; they are turtles.

The night before a giant sea turtle had been rescued and we saw him lying on the surgical table being debrided- removing barnacles that had grown on his shell. Blood was drawn and the turtle was taken to the Radiology lab for x-rays.

Examination of injured sea turtle at Georgia Sea Turtle Center.
Sea Turtle Surgery at Georgia Sea Turtle Center

Results revealed a boat propeller wound sometime in the past. The resulting crack in his shell became infected. The turtle would receive antibiotics, and his shell would be mended with a laser.

GA Sea Turtle Center Tech administers medications
GA Sea Turtle Center Tech administers medications

Every rescued turtle at the center receives a name, so much nicer than calling one XJ257. Detailed medical records and all treatments are recorded. When a turtle is ready to be released back into the sea, a tracking device is attached so their movements can be monitored.

Sea Turtle in Rehab Tank
Sea Turtle in Rehab Tank

We watched a feeding demonstration with a young turtle in a glass tank placed at children’s eye level.

Children learn inside the Georgia Sea Turtle Center
Inside the Georgia Sea Turtle Center

Earlier, the kids roamed about the museum playing with interactive displays, please touch exhibits and lots of videos. Afterward, we went out back to the Rehabilitation Pavilion, a room filled with tanks that look like small swimming pools. Adults and kids agree, the Georgia Sea Turtle Center ranks as a fun and worthwhile place to visit.

The family returned to Jekyll another day to beat the heat at Summer Waves Water Park. Although a water park seems out of character for this upscale maritime preserve, I give a thumbs up to the attraction. We had a blast slipping down a variety of water slides, hanging out on inner tubes in the lazy river and getting dunked with water in the splash zone. The little ones kept busy in the kiddie area. Summer Waves is clean and well attended by life guards.

Wet fun at Summer Waves Water Park

Summer Waves Water Park

Lastly, I took Laura over to Jekyll early one morning to let her experience Driftwood Beach, one of my favorite spots for photography. An array of petrified trees lying on their sides framed the beach, something like a tree graveyard. The place feels magical, a picturesque spot for wedding photos or family portraits. Every time I go I encounter different conditions: low tide, high tide, sunrise, wind and rain. Laura fell under its spell, too.

Driftwood Beach at Sunrise
Driftwood Beach at Sunrise Photo @ Debi Lander

Relaxation

With so many children and adults, it is easier and more relaxing to cook and dine at home. One night, I had the group to the cottage for a meal. However, dining out is always a treat, and we enjoyed a casual meal of burgers and fried fish at Brogen’s at the Pier. Fast service and reasonable prices.

We also couldn’t resist the Moo Cow ice cream shop. The employees were amazingly friendly and efficient. Hot days + cold ice cream = a perfect pair.

What We Missed

Walkway to Driftwood Beach
Walkway to Driftwood Beach

I am so sorry I missed a Tree Spirit scavenger hunt on St. Simons. In 1982, local sculptor Keith Jennings started carving faces on trees. He says the wood speaks to him, and he just has to let the tree’s soul out. There are 20 Tree Spirits on the island. Somehow I hadn’t heard about them, but guess I’ll just have to return another time.

Because the grandchildren are young, we didn’t include fishing, kayaking, dolphin tours, golf, guided nature walks and tennis, but they are certainly adventurous options. The Golden Isles provide a wealth of experiences for family vacations, getaway weekends or romantic escapes. Thank you Golden Isles for providing me with priceless family memories.

The Historic Gettysburg Hotel

A Hotel Review: Gettysburg Hotel

While visiting Pennsylvania,  my grandchildren and I stayed at the recently renovated Gettysburg Hotel.  Talk about a strategic location, this hotel is the epicenter of downtown and right in the middle of the action.  We could walk all to sites of interest, restaurants, tours or shops.  The only time a car is needed is if you choose to drive to distant battlefields and the National Military Park Headquarters.

The Gettysburg Hotel
The Gettysburg Hotel in Gettysburg, Pennsylvania

The Gettysburg Hotel has a delightful new Tavern/restaurant where we ended up grabbing a quick bite before a ghost tour. The food was far above tavern quality, including a hand-made hamburger patty and delicious made from scratch soup. We sat at a high top table in the bar area and received prompt, friendly service.

 

Gettysburg-Hotel-Pancakes
Pancakes at One Lincoln restaurant in the Gettysburg Hotel

Breakfast the next morning at One Lincoln (within the hotel) was worthy of praise.The decor included wallpaper with graphic lettering from the Gettysburg Address and the ceiling is copper penny colored pressed-tin  My grandson’s order of pancakes could have fed a whole battalion. I chose Eggs Benedict and the poached eggs were done to perfection- still gooey in the middle but not undercooked.

 

Eggs Benedict at One Lincoln in the Gettysburg Hotel

Our rooms were airy and spacious, beautifully color coordinated with lots of light blue and grey, and a bathroom that allowed us to spread out. My room had a microwave and mini refrigerator, ideal for the traveler. I appreciated the complimentary high-speed Internet service in my room and throughout the hotel

 

 

 

 

 

The history of this hotel is fascinating; it was established in 1797 as the Scott Tavern. In 1809, William McClellan purchased the inn and changed the name to Indian Queen.

 

During the Civil War, the Tenth New York Calvary wintered in Gettysburg and the Quartermaster took a room at the hotel which he used for the transaction of business. After the battle, the hotel parlors were turned over to the Sisters of Charity who  nursed the wounded soldiers.

 

As the town prepared for the dedication of the Soldier’s National Cemetery  in November 18, 1863, every hotel was filled to capacity. The Gettysburg Hotel was so full that people had to sleep in the lobbies and the bar. President Lincoln stayed in the David Wills House directly across the street from the hotel.

One of the stylish lobbies in the Gettysburg Hotel

Today the Gettysburg Hotel is owned by Gettysburg College and operated by the Waterford Hotel Group.  The facility is listed on the National Register of Historic Places and is a member of the Historic Hotels of America. I highly recommend this hotel for fine lodging in the town of Gettysburg. More information at: www.hotelgettysburg.com

 

Disclosure:  Thanks to the  Gettysburg Convention & Visitors Bureau and the Gettysburg Hotel for my visit.